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She’s not a fan of Bumble, which she believes “makes men passive and lazy when they were already passive to begin with.” Sameera’s older clients have had more luck with online dating sites rather than apps, in part because there’s a wider selection of people above a certain age.They’ve had particularly good success with Match.com, which has been around since 1995.
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But I notice that I often hear them say things like, “We met on Tinder, back when it was good” or, “We met on Hinge, back when it was good.” It seems like the trend with dating apps is that the first few cycles of people who join are actually cool people genuinely interested in a relationship, but the latter waves are ones just looking to hook up.
Sameera agrees with this, which is why she suggests trying new apps on the market.
“Everyone thinks the grass is greener on the other side, and that there will always be another option around the corner.” As a result, people have unrealistic expectations, and if they aren’t completely blown away by someone on a first date, they will write them off in favor of going out with a new person, thereby throwing themselves into an endless cycle of first dates.
I know someone who went wasn’t into the guy at first and, by the seventh date, she really clicked with him,” she said. We live in a society where people are so easy to say no to.