Dating younger man 20 years
Older women tend to exude a more “together” vibe, seeming to be more in tune with her needs (physical or otherwise), which makes her very attractive to younger men.
The problem, however, can be that an older woman is simply a challenge for the younger man.
And since we believe a match made in heaven is based on common values, you may be setting yourself up to be in a mismatch from the get-go.
However, as long as you’re both open and honest with each other and have discussed your needs, wants, expectations and values…then go for it.
If you’re confident that he loves you for a host of reasons beyond your looks and the ego boost he gets from “landing” you as his woman, then it’s imperative you trust him and the relationship you’re building (which is true in any relationship, regardless of age).
Another challenge is that most women want to be in a relationship with an “Alpha Male.” If, however, as an older woman you have a more difficult time letting him take the alpha role, you may ultimately end up feeling like you’re the one who’s “in charge.” It’s imperative that you stay in your feminine, even if you’re more financially stable, have more life experience than him, and are dying to tell him what you would do if you were in his shoes.