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It’s a common tragedy that I’ve seen in my practice for the last 28 years.
He may not feel as excited about the whole idea of marriage, especially after coming off a rough one. The thing is, he might be jaded about the whole thing after what he experienced.
If you want to use dating as a distraction for loneliness, insecurity, boredom or anything else, you’re doing again a great disservice to yourself and whoever else you’re bringing into your personal hell with you. A lot of my clients had already set up rebound relationships before they were even separated, or during separation, or right after the divorce papers are served they already had their eyes on someone to fill the void. This is true about most men and men dating after divorce immediately is not unheard of.
Work with a counselor, minister, therapist, relationship life coach who knows what the hell they’re doing to figure out the mistakes that “you“ made in your past marriage. If you have a revolving door of dating after divorce, where it’s one person for several months… You’re sending them a message that you do not want them to see: that the fear of being alone is greater than the fear of being grounded.
So your boyfriend may be divorced, but that doesn’t mean he’s divorced completely from his old life.
He’s still friends with those who are also friends with his ex.