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Someone can cheat once in a relationship and never do it again.Someone can cheat multiple times in one relationship and remain steadfastly loyal in another. What I do think is that once someone has broken that trust more than once in a relationship, that pattern will continue and never end.We lived together for two and half of these but the last two years we've been living apart after a brief separation but are trying to make things work.The reason for the separation was that one day when I was cleaning his email inbox for him I discovered emails between him and another man.He doesn't get the security of a relationship with the freedom of singledom.There is nothing to salvage here - his behaviour shows he has no respect for you, and he probably never will.To save everyone confusion though, I think ‘taking the profiles down’ should be talked about outright, likely in the exclusivity conversation, and not something that is just assumed.Until a couple is exclusive, there’s really nothing wrong with being on a dating site.
I don't believe the 'once a cheat, always a cheat' philosophy.To me, whether it's a man or a woman he's cheating with is largely irrelevant here, it's the serial and repeated nature of his cheating and his lack or remorse which is the concern.Why was the cheating with women more forgivable to you than with men to you? I understand that his cheating with men comes with the added shock that he might not be straight - but it's the same principle, the same betrayal.You can forgive it once, but once you forgive it twice you are condoning a pattern of behavior. You need to make a clean break and stop the life support this relationship is being sustained on.In his mind he's got away with it twice, so why stop there? If he wants to sleep around that's perfectly fine - but you're not going to sacrifice your self respect while he does it.